Thursday, June 26, 2008

Stress (2)

What causes stress?

We are all different and we have all learnt to respond differently to situations that make us feel angry or worried or overloaded - This means that some people will become highly stressed about things that might not worry other people like:
  • exams
  • arguments
  • homework being harassed
  • being left out of a group
  • a new school
  • being late
  • girl friends / boy friends
  • a new baby in the family
  • moving house
  • going to the dentist
  • a job interview, or
  • taking on a new responsibility
It's different for everyone, but like a family breakdown, a death of someone close, someone going to goal, too many responsibilities, or being a victim of violent crime. Crises like being around when there is a bushfire, cyclone or earthquake, or living through a drought (especially for country people) are very stressful for everyone.

Our coping skills are something we have learnt, usually from our parents. Because they are learnt, this means that we can all learn and take on new coping skills to increase our coping capcity and deal with stress better.

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